This routine will be particularly helpful for you if a “racing mind” and trouble turning off your thoughts is a particularly strong contributing factor in your sleep issues.
I recommend first ending whatever you have to do on your phone or devices then putting them in airplane mode so that you are reducing the amount of electromagnetic fields that are around you while you sleep at night.
Perform your personal care rituals like teeth brushing, face washing and put on your pj’s so you’re ready for bed.
In a quiet space, ideally, your personal altar or meditation space, light the sage with a candle until there is a decent amount of smoke.
Use one hand to waft the smoke towards your body, moving the sage past the lower and upper parts of your body (the order and direction are not particularly important).
As best you can, include the space behind your body with the sage smoke, being mindful of fire safety.
Imagine that all of the outside thoughts and events of the day are being carried away with the smoke. Set your intention that you are giving back anything that you’ve taken on that is not yours, and you are calling back any of your energy that you may have given away inappropriately.
Take three to five deep and easy breaths, and feel a sense of gratitude for yourself for taking this time for yourself.
Extinguish the sage either in some sand in an abalone shell (traditionally used) or in a small cup of dried rice, sand, or small beans to snuff out the flame.
Head to bed and enjoy a peaceful night’s sleep!